Workshops

Next to play sessions I will also give workshops.

I have been doing BDSM for over a decade. In this time I have learnt a lot by watching others play, looking at videos online, going to workshops and conferences and having lots of fun myself!

My interests lie in many different directions: bondage, impact play, feminisation, alternative relationships and also some things a bit more edgy like needles and play piercings.

During the last few years I have been teaching workshops and doing demos and shows at fetish and play parties on a variety of topics. I don’t think I should keep the knowledge I gathered over the years for myself. Knowledge is meant to be shared.

I love teaching and witnessing other people learning. Sharing what I have been doing for years is so rewarding for me. I like to give my attention to the individuals in my lessons. This way I can give tips and tricks adapted to the level of those I am working with. Therefore no workshop will be exactly the same

 

All workshops will be given at LUX Dominastudio in Berlin Tempelhof.

Due to corona alle will be online until further notice. The workshops I offer right now are:

Booking

Self tying / bondage for beginners

It can be difficult now with corona to get your needs met in terms of rope play. Maybe you don’t have a regular tying partner. Maybe you can’t see your normal partner because of the restrictions. And maybe you never started before but really would like to try it now.

Rope on your naked skin can be one of the best feelings. Tightening it around your legs or arms, sometimes it can give a similar feeling to when wearing a corset.

Luckily this feeling is also available when you’re alone. A lot of bondage can be practiced on your own body.

In this workshop I will teach you some basic knots to start with and some basic principles. All you need to try it yourself after this evening and get creative. Rope doesn’t always have to look nice (although it can be fun of course), sometimes it can be just about the feeling.

This evening we will be doing both.

To join this workshop, you need to have rope of yourself, at least one piece, but two will be better. Preferably it is rope made out of hemp or jute (synthetic version called hempex or spleitex is also fine), rather not use cotton, but if you don’t have anything else it will do.  

This workshop will be two hours and will be adapted to who is joining it.

After registration and payment you will receive an email with the link to the Zoom Meeting (video conference) and an explanation of how it works. If you are joining as a couple you both need to purchase a ticket for the workshop.

The main language for the workshop will be German (please be aware I am not from Germany and therefore not fluent in German).

It is possible to wear a mask during the conference if you do not want to be seen online with your face.

Soft sm for beginners

You and your partner would like to bring something extra into the bedroom, but have no idea where to start?

Your partner has told you they are into BDSM, but you have no clue what they are talking about?

You work as a sexworker and clients sometimes ask if some BDSM is also possible?

When you can say yes to one of these questions then this workshop/discussion night is for you.

Things we will be talking about during this night:

  • What is BDSM? (bring your questions and the knowledge you already have).
  • (beginner) Toys, items in your household you can use for this (and also what not to use) and items especially made for BDSM.
  • How to initiate the session and maintain it (do you always need to plan everything?).
  • Aftercare (what is it, is it always needed).
  • Any other topic that comes up from the participants.

This workshop will be two hours and will be adapted to who is joining it.

After registration and payment you will receive an email with the link to the Zoom Meeting (video conference) and an explanation of how it works. If you are joining as a couple you both need to purchase a ticket for the workshop.

The main language for the workshop will be English. It is possible to wear a mask during the conference if you do not want to be seen online with your face.

Non Mono Discussion Night (English)

Non-mono is a term used for every kind of relationship that is not monogamie. For everyone this means something else.

Some only have playdates next to their relationship, some live with more than 2 in the same house, some live alone but are dating more than one and so much more options are possible.

Terms that sometimes are used in these topics (just to name a few):

  • Polyamorie
  • Polyseksual
  • Kitchen table poly
  • Play partner
  • Poly hierarchy

This evening I would like to discuss some of the issues that can occur when you are in or would like to be in a non mono relationship.

And what if your partner just told you they want to open up your relationship and you don’t know what to expect?

Especially now with corona, how to deal with seeing less people, do you still date others or have you made a choice between you partners?

This discussion night will be two hours and will be adapted to who is joining it. We start the evening with a quick round where everyone can bring in topics they would like to address during the evening.

The night is suitable for people who just are about to open their relationship as well as people who are living a poly lifestyle for years. Even after years there can be topics that come up since our society is not yet adapted and we need to figure a lot of things out for ourselves.

After registration and payment you will receive an email with the link to the Zoom Meeting (video conference) and an explanation of how it works.If you are joining as a couple you both need to purchase a ticket for the workshop.

The main language for the workshop will be English.

It is possible to wear a mask during the conference if you do not want to be seen online with your face.

Feminisation

In my life as a Dominant Woman I have played with lots of different play partners.  Somehow most of my male partners have had some interest in feminisation often for very different reasons. For some it involves a bit of humiliation, for others it is about feeling beautiful.

Feminisation play raises questions like:

Is it possible to enjoy feminisation as a cis men while claiming you’re a feminist?

I am a huge manly man with lots of hair, how can I fit feminisation into my play without looking ridiculous?

Does it always have to involve a form of humiliation?

This evening we will discuss these questions and possible answers to them. The evening is suited for beginners and people with more experience are very welcome to take part in the discussion, too.

You are also very much welcome as a Top. Maybe your partner told you they are into this and would like to know more about it.

This workshop will be two hours and will be adapted to who is joining it.

After registration and payment you will receive an email with the link to the Zoom Meeting (video conference) and an explanation of how it works. If you are joining as a couple you both need to purchase a ticket for the workshop.

The main language for the workshop will be English

It is possible to wear a mask during the conference if you do not want to be seen online with your face.

How to book a workshop

All workshops are two hours and cost 40 euro pro person.

Bookings will done at the site of studio LUX.

 

If you have any questions, please send an email to mslzz.fetish (at) gmail (dot) com .